Mfundo yakuti mlongoyo ali ndi chidwi ndi maganizo a mchimwene wake womulera ndi choyamikirika. Ndipo kuwunika kuyenera kwake kuchokera kumalingaliro amunthu momwe angathere. Koma kumufunsa kuti atuluke pamaso pake ndi chinthu chodabwitsa. Iye amutenga iye, sichoncho iye? Msungwana waulesi yekhayu sachita mantha konse - ndizo zomwe akufuna. Anamaliza kutulutsa chithaphwi chonse pamimba pake! Anachiyendetsa icho.
Ndakhala ndikulimbikitsa mobwerezabwereza maubwenzi apabanja otere. Ndi bwino kukhala ndi mdzukulu panyumba, ndi agogo aamuna kusangalala ndi kugawana zokumana nazo, kusiyana ndi kupita uku ndi uku ndi munthu yemwe sindikumudziwa.